Hmong girls in Sapa |
My partner and I travel this way in various third-world
countries during her summer vacation from teaching. We have assiduously avoided
the first world partly because it tends to be less interesting but mostly
because it’s incredibly expensive.
All those years I spent as cubicle fodder, a dedicated wage
slave, I thought that travel was a waste of money. Except for a few souvenirs,
you wound up with nothing concrete to show for it. But when I was forty, I was
diagnosed with cancer and didn’t know whether or not my story was ending. I recovered
completely. But when my destiny was uncertain, I made myself two promises. One
was to write and try to get my work published.The second was to see the world.
Travel is a Buddhist experience. Even a somewhat-lapsed
Buddhist like me is aware of this. When you descend on a place you’ve never
seen before you are completely in the present moment. You arrive knowing not a
soul and with no idea of what you will eat or where you will sleep. Chances are
you only possess a sketchy idea of the meaning and depth of the culture. You
are at the mercy of experience, the full range of potential occurrences.
These are sometimes wonderful beyond belief like dining with
an extended Hmong family in Sapa Vietnam, having tea and cookies with Turkish
women lace-makers inside their volcanic ash cave home in Cappadocia, going to
an earth goddess Pachamama ceremony on a remote Peruvian hillside or simply
drinking a mango smoothie in the night market in Chiang-Mai Thailand as dancing
girls take the stage.
The experiences sometimes can be not-so-pleasant: like
running out of water on a bus on the Raya
Pass in Peru
at 15,000 feet above sea level because the road running into Cuzco
had been blockaded by strikers. Or being detained for six hours and eventually
extorted for about 120 dollars each because of a “visa re-entry” problem in Vietnam.
Yes, anything can happen when you venture out into the
world. The people you meet will be wonderful or awful just like those at home.
But only they can show you how to turn the crystal in a new direction allowing
you to see life in a way you could never have previously imagined. The value of
that cannot be measured.